There are quite a few things that annoy me, just like everyone else I'm sure, but there is one thing that beats out all of the rest. When it comes to people being two-faced I just cannot stand it.
This is my biggest pet peeve because I am not a fan of dishonest peoplpe, people who talk behind peoples backs, or people who think they need everyone to like them. Then, in order to make everyone like them they make others sound bad. I think everyone should just be themselves and if someone likes you that's great, if they don't then move on. I do not understand why you would want to be friends with someone who doesn't like you for who you really are. There's a saying by Dr. Seuss that I think is so true, "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."
I've had plenty of friends in the past who have been two-faced to me, or to other good friends of mine. In order to avoid them I just pick out the friends I know I can trust. That doesn't mean I don't befriend people I can't trust or think are two-faced, it just means I don't share with them every little secret. That way we can still be friends, but I don't have to worry about them talking behind my back or secretly making jokes about me or other good friends. Although, if they chose to still make up lies or talk about me, I won't be quite as hurt because obviously we won't be as close as if I had shared everything about myself.
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